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Tetzaveh Ex. 27:20 – 30:10
Tetzaveh
Ex. 27:20 – 30:10
Rabbi Gary Pokras
“… a perpetual burnt offering for your generations at the entrance to the Tent of Meeting before the Lord, where I shall meet with you there and speak to you.” (Ex. 29:42)
In Parashat Tetzaveh we are introduced to the establishment of daily sacrifices. The Hebrew word for sacrifice (korbon) shares a root with the word karov which means “close.” The purpose of the sacrifice was to become closer with God.
Rabbi Stephen Wylen relates a story told about the Apter Rebbe, who was among the early generations of chassidic rabbis. A chassid, one of his people, was pouring out his heart about his many troubles. When he finished, the Apter Rebbe responded: “You should know that an even greater tragedy than all that has befallen you occurred today; the daily sacrifice was not offered because our Temple lies in ruins.”1
On the surface, this may not seem like a compassionate response. As a congregational rabbi I see so much pain in the world today. So many of our families struggle with multiple crises, ongoing debilitating illnesses, deep anxiety and more. How does this answer help?
There are layers of meaning beneath the Apter Rebbe’s words. Closest to the surface is the importance of perspective. When we reframe our suffering to consider a larger picture, it can help us carry our sorrows with more strength and grace. Digging deeper, we discover that there is a connection between our suffering, the Jewish people as a whole, and our distance from God. There is something mystical, kabbalistic at play here. Without the daily sacrifices, where does God speak to us? How do we hear God? How do we grow closer to God? If we are distanced from the Source of Life, how could the world not be broken, and how could we not suffer?
My teacher Lawrence Hoffman taught us that Jewish spirituality is about a recurring cycle of exile and return. The Apter Rebbe is describing our exile not merely our geographical exile, but our spiritual exile. And he also hinted at the solution: strive to grow closer to God, and to bring God’s Presence more into the world. In other words, we, through our actions, can have cosmic impact.
We cannot build a third temple or reinstitute the sacrificial cult. However, we can study more Torah, make heartfelt daily prayer more of a habit, and strive to live according to the values and teachings of our tradition.
Of course, this will not make our troubles vanish. It would, however, bring more than a little healing into the world; and strengthen our ability to lighten our loads, diminish our anxieties, and live with more joy and meaning.
Such is the compassion and empowerment of the Apter Rebbe’s answer.
1 Rabbi Stephen Wylen, “T’zaveh,” in Voices of Torah, vol. 2, p. 160.
Terumah Ex. 25:1 – 27:19
Terumah
Ex. 25:1 – 27:19
Rabbi Baht Weiss
There’s a verse we read this week in Parshat Terumah that says,
“Ve’asu li mikdash veshachanti betocham,”
“Build for Me a Sanctuary that I may dwell among them.” (Exod. 25:8)
This reminds me of the line “If you build it, they will come,” from the movie Field of Dreams when Ray, a farmer in Iowa listens to a mysterious voice telling him to build a baseball field in his backyard. Ray follows the instructions and lo and behold, baseball players from the past magically appear and play baseball games in this so -called Field of Dreams. To me, this film symbolizes that with a hopeful spirit, we can achieve things that seem beyond the realm of possibility.
If we make a sanctuary for God, will God appear, like the spirits of baseball players past?
It you pay careful attention to the biblical verse, it says I will dwell among “them,” meaning God may dwell among us–the people, rather than I will dwell within it–the Sanctuary. This is the idea that God isn’t contained within any particular physical space, but rather exists in the spaces between people and in the relationships, we have with each other. It is not just this physical space that is sacred but the fact that we join together each week to pray, connect with one another, and to build community that makes our space special. This is why we can find spirituality together on a hike in the woods or doing acts of community service.
It may seem strange to find the directions for building a sanctuary in the book of Exodus, which is our story of how we became a people. Details for the building of a sanctuary would seem more appropriate in the next book of the Bible, Leviticus which discusses the role of the priests and all the Temple worship. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks suggest a reason why it is placed here. He points out that “after the crossing of the sea, the Israelites continued to complain, first about the lack of water, then that the water was bitter, then regarding the lack of food, and then the lack of water again. Then, within weeks of the Revelation of Sinai—the only time in history God appeared to the entire nation—they made a Golden Calf.” Despite all these miracles displayed by God, the people are still not satisfied.
It was then that God said, “Let them build something together.” This simple command transformed the Israelites. During the entire construction of the Tabernacle there were no complaints! The people contributed gold or silver, or bronze and others brought their time and skill. They gave so much that Moses had to order them to stop. What do we learn from this? “It is not what God does for us that transforms us. It is what we do for God. So long as every crisis was dealt with by Moses and miracles, the Israelites remained in a state of dependency. Their default response was to complain. For them to grow to adulthood and responsibility they had to undergo a transition from passive recipients of God’s blessings to active creators.”
In another words-they had to be stakeholders—they needed to be invested in the construction. In the very beginning of the Torah portion, the people are instructed to bring gifts, terumot, as each person’s heart moves him. What I love about Beth Ami is that there are many different ways to be involved. One’s heart may move him or her to communal worship, to act in a cabaret or Purim spiel, to study Torah together on Shabbat, to cook with the culinary crew or to participate in acts of social justice. Beth Ami is a place where we build what our heart’s desire—a place of community and connection. I have learned through our programs, our Shabbat experiences, and through our schools-that if we build it, they will indeed come. I believe God appears in our acts of kindness and through holy relationships—so when we build our community, God does indeed, appear.
Mishpatim Ex. 21:1 – 24:18
Mishpatim
Ex. 21:1 – 24:18
Rabbi Gary Pokras
“You shall neither deceive a stranger nor oppress him, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” (Ex. 22:20)
Two weeks ago, in our exploration of parashat BeShallach, we highlighted the central importance of our origin as slaves in Egypt. Our history of oppression helps us develop empathy for the ‘other,’ and to build just communities. This week, that message is repeated with emphasis.
There is no question that looking after the needs of the most vulnerable is a core Jewish value. However, Torah is rarely limited to surface meanings. Rabbi Joshua Minkin offers a more subtle way to understand our verse about caring for the stranger. He suggests that, in addition to the strangers in our midst, each of us also carries a stranger within us – that part of ourselves that we avoid or deny.1 Whether it is our picture-perfect social media images or the secrets about ourselves and our personal lives that we hide from our friends and neighbors, we all repress some part(s) of ourselves when we project a more put-together or perfect persona.
When we lie to ourselves about the truth of who we are, or we judge ourselves negatively, we oppress the stranger within us. When we live two separate, contradictory realities – one inner and one outer, we diminish our spirit, our very souls.
In other words, our efforts to appear more acceptable or likeable causes a self-inflicted condition of exclusion, separating our true selves from our neighbors and communities. The language of inclusion used to be one of tolerance. However, ‘tolerance’ is a terrible word. It says, ‘I will tolerate your presence even if I don’t really like or know you.’ A better word is ‘acceptance,’ meaning, ‘I accept you for who you are.’ Yet even that is not enough. What we really need, in addition to acceptance, is a genuine sense of respect. We need to embrace not only our similarities, but also our differences – to learn to love the stranger, the strangeness of others, and of ourselves.
How can we have empathy for the strangers around us, when we deny the very existence of the strangers within us? To be compassionate to our neighbors, we must also learn to be honest, and gentle with ourselves.